“YOU WERE GIVEN THIS LIFE BECAUSE YOU ARE STRONG ENOUGH TO LIVE IT.”
NEWS FLASH people, I am currently in a relationship. My first relationship in my entire life. And let me tell you it wasn’t as easy as I thought it was supposed to be. I am trying to make it easy, by taking it easy, but it is still work. I thought that relationship comes natural when a guy and girl start dating, sparks fly and boom, they love each other. This is what was feed to me through movies and hopeless romantic books. Books never tell us that we should know the other person and try to make him/her happy. They just tell us that love it good and love it great, which I am pretty sure is true, but still it ain’t as easy as I thought it would be.
At the beginning I was thinking that it is not easy because we were not meant to be, but after asking around and trying to dig deeper in the relationship thing. I found out that this is completely natural and this is the beginning of the relationships looks like. Everyone advised me to forget everything I learned about love from books because if I kept waiting for this spark that I imagine it will be, it will never appear. Once I stopped thinking about what should happen according to what I know about love, I started to get better in this relationship thingy.
Aside from this deep, long insight about my current love life, one of the hardest thing in the relationship thing is dating and not everything about the date. It is just choosing what to wear in a date. I am pretty sure that all women think of this before they go to the date. I want to wear something feminine, but not to look like Barbie doll. I want to look sexy, but not to look like I am trying to hard. I want to look beautiful for my boyfriend without making my dad jealous (if you are living with your dad, like me). How much makeup should I put, is it too much? Or is too little? And the circle of question keeps popping into my mind, all this just in choosing what to wear.
So I decided to share with you one of the outfit I wore to one of my dates and it was one of my favorites, because A) I looked beautiful, B) My man thought I looked beautiful. What I love the most about this outfit is that it is simple, feminine and trendy. I also love the cold shoulder thing that the top has because I discovered that men dig it. They think it is so sexy and of course we-girls- want to look sexy for our men. The heels in my life is a necessity. I dig them, so this mules are perfect for my style and they are totally comfortable, something you need to feel when you are in a date is comfortable in your shoes, otherwise it will be one of the worst dates you will ever have.
I hope you loved this outfit and that it helped you in one way or another. Please leave in the comment section below what was your favorite outfit you have ever wore on a date.