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Thursday, October 13, 2016

COFFEE TALK: SELF DOUBT AND HOW TO KILL IT

So I wanted to find a way to kill my self-doubt and I really wanted to share it with you guys, so if anyone is interested in getting rid of the chain that holds her mind prisoner, please read down below the ways that I have found to kill my self-doubt.


“DON’T EVER WORRY ABOUT THINGS THAT DON’T WORRY ABOUT YOU.”

Have you ever wanted to start something so bad, but always told yourself you are not good enough for it? You know doubted yourself when you could have been right about something? I do this all the time. My self-doubt is like a demon inside of me eating my life day by day.  And if I had to describe what the only thing that is holding me back in life, it will be self-doubt.

So I wanted to find a way to kill my self-doubt and I really wanted to share it with you guys, so if anyone is interested in getting rid of the chain that holds her mind prisoner, please read down below the ways that I have found to kill my self-doubt.

WRITE DOWN YOUR STRENGHT AND WEAKNESS I have read in an article that you should mediate and this will help with your self-doubt and would make it go away, but here is the thing, I suck at the mediating. I have no idea how people just stop their mind from thinking or think about something that is not important. I always feel that my mind keeps on working no matter what. So instead of mediating, I decided that whenever I feel that I want to do something and I am starting to doubt myself, that I will just write down my strength and weakness, so if this thing is in my capabilities I will just go for it.

REMEMBER THAT FAILURE IS NOT THE END OF THE DAY we all have to remind ourselves that failure is not the end of the day. So if you want to go for something go for it. If it fails then it fails, but at least you got to try it and get experience out of it. I know that I was so hesitant to start this blog and I feared that it will fail, but you know what, I don’t really care how it turns out to be, I am doing what I love and maybe some people will love it too.

TRY TO FIND GOOD OUT OF ANY SITUATION (POSITIVE AFFIRMATION) you know, I believe that there is something good that will come even in bad situation, so how about something good coming from good situations. It won’t just be something good, but it will be something great. If you want to talk to someone and you are doubting yourself that you are not pretty enough, just remember that you look good, you are funny, etc and not just remember it, but say it out loud.
(I am pretty)
(I am smart)
(This dress is beautiful on me)
(I can do this, because I have trained well)

DO YOUR BEST once you do your best. You will never doubt yourself. First because deep down in yourself that you couldn’t have done a better job than what’s already done and second your consciousness will be free.  If you are doubting yourself to start your own business, go with everything you have and do the best damn job you can manage and you will find your business to be flourishing from your work or your business won’t work, but you won’t be sad because you have done the best you have could.

Whenever I face self-doubt in any situation I try to do those things and it really lessen it a lot and sometimes I get even proud of myself.

I hope that these ways works with you and with me too. Also if anyone has any other way that will help or something she use, please just leave it in the comments down below.

I would really love to know what you think of this post in the comments down below. Till next time, bye. .

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20 comments:

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  2. I love the first sentence. It's so true.
    Kiss, Kati

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  5. Thank you for these tips! It's mind-boggling how simple it is actually what we have to do to gain confidence.

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    1. Yeah, it is so simple yet it is hard to follow.

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  9. Really great tips. I have my moments of self doubt too and positive affirmations work really well for me. I noticed I tend to doubt myself more when people around me start to doubt me, so now whenever someone questions whether i can do something or not I make it my goal to prove them that I can.
    Thank you for sharing this. Have a lovely Friday and weekend :)
    xo
    Sauniya | Find Your Bliss ♡

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    1. You know I think you are right, but I'll do it, because I am positive that if god gave me the idea then there is a possibility to achieve it.

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